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Kikuyo
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Post subject: Re: What do you think about an Okiya outside of Japan? Posted: Sat Oct 10, 2009 3:57 pm |
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Joined: Fri Feb 13, 2009 12:34 am Posts: 221 Location: Ukiyo Favorite Geiko: [Mameyoshi][Kotoha] Favorite Maiko: [Fukusato][Tanewaka]
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I just wanted to interject and ask that people be careful with political comments; there are people from all over the planet here coming together for a mutual interest, so let's have respect  Especially in the topic of a foreign okiya  No country is better than another to host something like this, so relax. As for a foreign okiya, having the practice based on something traditionally Japanese, would one (if they were to become a geisha in a foreign okiya) take on a Japanese name, or one very traditional to the country that the okiya is located in? Are we trying to bring Japan's tradition to another country, or trying to create the tradition in another culture? Like, bring Japanese geisha to the west, or create a western style of geisha? Part of the appeal of geisha is that they demonstrate and preserve things about Japan's yesteryear, so a foreign audience may not connect so well to the idea of their people playing Japanese geisha, when they have their own traditions and history and cultural dress to preserve. (sorry, not trying to mod or anything, I just fear these sort of country-hating topics, especially when they come from something completely unrelated)
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hopeitwillendup
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Post subject: Re: What do you think about an Okiya outside of Japan? Posted: Sat Oct 10, 2009 10:46 pm |
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Joined: Mon Apr 27, 2009 6:47 am Posts: 41 Location: Russia, Taganrog
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Yes, that is the problem I am thinking of. A Western Kyoto-style okiya would be a strange thing, at least because of the speaking Kyo-ben requirement. And a Western Western okiya would be no okiya at all, that is 'geisha-house' due to the 'westernness'
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Gurita Taisho
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Post subject: Re: What do you think about an Okiya outside of Japan? Posted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 8:43 pm |
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Joined: Sat Sep 12, 2009 6:27 pm Posts: 125 Location: Delft, the Netherlands Favorite Geiko: Kikutsuru Favorite Maiko: Toshiteru
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Thank you Kikuyo-san. I admit my 'bear-hunt', even with its AIGF & non-malicious intention was unrelated to the topic. [For instance: I know, and knew all the time, that it was not a Baltic state, but Russia, no matter how Stalinist at the time, that crushed 75-80% of Nazism in 1943-45 - and no matter how allied Stalin was to Hitler when seizing the Baltics in 1940. Both happened. OK, end!] Please let's all enter Kikuyo-san's wonderful, welcoming okiya now, and sail on her course in the future, it looks like the wiser one. [I insist the first round of wodka is on me.] A Japanese-staffed okiya+ochaya in a non-Japanese environment would require some aforehand explanation for the ignorant, I think we can agree on that by now. What if we'd connect that Western [or whatever non-Japanese category] okiya to some solid Internet etc. connections - like, for instance, this Board? Or put up a kind of powerpoint-or-so presentation for visitors about what's actually going on in there, and what not! [like prostitution]. But I understand it will remain an uneasy position... 
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Black_Jasmine
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Post subject: Re: What do you think about an Okiya outside of Japan? Posted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 5:32 am |
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Joined: Sat Feb 28, 2009 7:06 pm Posts: 122 Location: Asian Pearl
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Just my opinion: as you know, Japanese society was very male dominated and wives literally used to sit in their homes. Men looked for female entertaining (not necessarily for sex). Geisha were beautiful, stylish, well mannered persons, who combine desire, wisdom, humor, style and care (u name it). There are no similar things in other cultures. So, be sure that in America and other counties in Europe or Middle-East men will thing about those "okiya" as regular whore houses. U have to be totally naive about men to suggest that 30-50 years old person will pay good money for a conversation with 20 years old girl, no matter of her accent, let's be straight about it. Men will come waiting for something else, girls will obey to do not lose their clients and u will have a whore house in your hands, which are totally illegal in US, or u will have female clients, who will come to look on your art skills and etc. But they will not bring real money, sorry for reality. I see problems not only in future entertainers, but mainly in clients. Geisha business is business as others. Before u bring something, think twice how you will sell it.
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Sakamoto
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Post subject: Re: What do you think about an Okiya outside of Japan? Posted: Tue Dec 08, 2009 12:32 pm |
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Joined: Sun Sep 28, 2008 12:59 pm Posts: 272 Location: somewhere on Earth Favorite Geiko: no preferance Favorite Maiko: no preference
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you guys are still gladiating yourselves with that? Nobody can jugde something that has never been tried.The same was said in relation of many businesses in the history.Many stuff that were considered crazy years before now are well-secceded like car,computer,coca-cola and the list go on.
If the problem is the way men will see geishas,it´ss not the geisha culture´s fault,but ours.If the large number of women accepts the porno culture and prostitution as natural,how we could expect more respect for us?We don´t need to have okyias in the West to men sexualize women in professions as well in any other field.Curisouly,i am always attacked (sometimes isnulted) when reporting such reality.
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Fuyouhime
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Post subject: Re: What do you think about an Okiya outside of Japan? Posted: Tue Dec 08, 2009 4:26 pm |
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Joined: Fri Jun 27, 2008 1:17 pm Posts: 818 Location: Virginia Favorite Geiko: Mayuha and Kimika Favorite Maiko: Kikuyuu
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I still think it's a stereotype to say that American men can only look at a teahouse and think of it as an expensive brothel. That makes a rather large assumption on the abilities of American men to understand what the concept of an ochaya is, especially since people here don't a have a problem saying that the American women on this forum understand the idea. To be honest, it's saying that American men are too stupid and too sexualized to understand that a hostess is not a prostitute. Amazingly, American men can get the idea that a geisha is a woman who is hired to help a party be more enjoyable with music, dancing, and conversation. And they can also get the idea that sex is not the obvious conclusion to the end of the night, despite how much the entertainment may have cost. It's not a foregone conclusion that a teahouse in the US would become a brothel. I also think that saying that it would never work in America because men would turn it into a brothel, while saying this doesn't happen in Japan, makes an assumption on the part of Japanese men as well. Somehow, they're more sensitive and cultured than American men, somehow more capable of understanding this rather simple concept? That largely implies that Japanese men are somehow better than American men. I'm sorry for ranting, but I'm really tired of seeing American men get ragged on throughout this topic. It insults a lot of people I know.
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Sakamoto
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Post subject: Re: What do you think about an Okiya outside of Japan? Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 9:36 pm |
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Joined: Sun Sep 28, 2008 12:59 pm Posts: 272 Location: somewhere on Earth Favorite Geiko: no preferance Favorite Maiko: no preference
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Fuyuhime,i didn´t mention american men in my post,i said western men in general.We can´t deny that sexism is still strong as well as women sexual exploitation and there are plenty of serious studies from my country,many from USA and Europe,that proove what i said.About the the atacks,people in general attack the ones (specially women from the Third Woeld like me) who say we live in pornified cultures (not necessarily people from this forum,i spoke in a general way);Brasil has a strong one for exemple,just take a look at Rio´s carnival to see why so many girls are trafficked.I were almost trafficked,it is very very seriuos,and the demand is created by men from rich countries.To be considered a commodity,a sub-human,by men from USA,Canada and Europe is awful,there is nothing more offensive than that.If it was not true,so why women traffick is increasing? Because we women from poor countries love to be whores or because men from rich country take opportunity over our dispair?
However,it has nothing to do with geishas.The mizu shobai is not the responsable for its problem existance. I just mentioned this fact to ilustrate why people would think geishas are whores.They would be just acting in the way they normally do in relation to women.Imagine women entertaining men without sex.For many people,in the West,no matter the country,would find it suspicious;but in any way,i don´t think it´s the point that is disturbing people here..... i guess i have found out what is the problem...it´s not the karyukai in itself,but the word "geisha".This word has strange effects on people,and i mean men and women.It is something like cry "shark" in a crowdy beach.
I guess international okyias are possible,but not with geisha.Not only there is this whore-oriented mind in relation to them as well as they already exist in Japan.Why people would hire western geisha if they can hire "genuine" ones in Japan?We would be the eternal "number two",never considered good enough...maybe that´s where the problem is.
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Sakamoto
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Post subject: Re: What do you think about an Okiya outside of Japan? Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 9:58 pm |
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Joined: Sun Sep 28, 2008 12:59 pm Posts: 272 Location: somewhere on Earth Favorite Geiko: no preferance Favorite Maiko: no preference
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Sakamoto
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Post subject: Re: What do you think about an Okiya outside of Japan? Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 10:48 pm |
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Joined: Sun Sep 28, 2008 12:59 pm Posts: 272 Location: somewhere on Earth Favorite Geiko: no preferance Favorite Maiko: no preference
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Kikuyo wrote: I just wanted to interject and ask that people be careful with political comments; there are people from all over the planet here coming together for a mutual interest, so let's have respect  Especially in the topic of a foreign okiya  No country is better than another to host something like this, so relax. As for a foreign okiya, having the practice based on something traditionally Japanese, would one (if they were to become a geisha in a foreign okiya) take on a Japanese name, or one very traditional to the country that the okiya is located in? Are we trying to bring Japan's tradition to another country, or trying to create the tradition in another culture? Like, bring Japanese geisha to the west, or create a western style of geisha? Part of the appeal of geisha is that they demonstrate and preserve things about Japan's yesteryear, so a foreign audience may not connect so well to the idea of their people playing Japanese geisha, when they have their own traditions and history and cultural dress to preserve. (sorry, not trying to mod or anything, I just fear these sort of country-hating topics, especially when they come from something completely unrelated) Ah,just now i saw this Sorry,i am a bit slow today and my conection is not helping !
That´s a good point,actually new traditions should be created once western tastes conserning arts differ a lot from japaneses ones.For this reason,one more time,i can say that what would work better is oiran or tayuu.People will have lot sof arguments to say we don´t deserve top call ouselves geisha as well as lot of reasons to compare us to them;by the other hand,what would they do once they know nothing (or almost nothing) about oiran or tayuu? I have the opinion that we all could join togheter and make a huge hanamachi X3! The forum could be the okami-samas place to discuss problems,arts,odoris,etc.That would be amazing X3!!
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Fuyouhime
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Post subject: Re: What do you think about an Okiya outside of Japan? Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 4:52 am |
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Joined: Fri Jun 27, 2008 1:17 pm Posts: 818 Location: Virginia Favorite Geiko: Mayuha and Kimika Favorite Maiko: Kikuyuu
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Sakamoto, I wasn't targeting your post, just the many posts within this topic that have made claims that it's a foregone conclusion that an okiya in the US would just become a brothel. I'm not going to deny issues of misogynism and exploitation, I'm well aware that they exist in every nation and like most women have had to deal with them personally.
But I still think it's insulting to say that men outside of Japan are incapable of looking at an okiya and think of it as something other than a brothel. That, I think, is a rather dehumanizing way to look at men, as if they're incapable of thinking about anything without a sexual mindset. If the concept of an okiya was explained in plain terms, then anyone can understand what it is. And if the geisha within the okiya don't accept any 'offers' made to them, then it won't become a brothel. It's really that simple.
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